Sr. Christine Kiley, ASCJ
 



By our lives,
may the Heart of Christ
be known and loved.

Vocation Office 
Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus

February, 2006

Dear Everyone,

As I read the recent document of Our Holy Father, Pope Benedict I thought about the many women discerning a call to religious life and how his words on the Love of Christ

relate to the LOVE OF THE HEART of CHRIST that is the heart and depth of our Apostle charism. As we have said in previous letters—it is the love that the world so desperately needs-the Love of the Heart of Christ. I have taken a quote from the document and I encourage you to read the entire letter.

 “God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him” (1 Jn 4:16). These words from the First Letter of John express with remarkable clarity the heart of the Christian faith: the Christian image of God and the resulting image of mankind and its destiny. In the same verse, Saint John also offers a kind of summary of the Christian life: “We have come to know and to believe in the love God has for us”. We have come to believe in God's love: in these words the Christian can express the fundamental decision of his life. Being Christian is not the result of an ethical choice or a lofty idea, but the encounter with an event, a person, which gives life a new horizon and a decisive direction. Saint John's Gospel describes that event in these words: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son.” Since God has first loved us (cf. 1 Jn 4:10), love is now no longer a mere “command”; it is the response to the gift of love with which God draws near to us. God's love for us is fundamental for our lives, and it raises important questions about who God is and who we are.  Anyone who wishes to give love must also receive love as a gift. Certainly, as the Lord tells us, one can become a source from which rivers of living water flow (cf. Jn 7:37-38). Yet to become such a source, one must constantly drink anew from the original source, which is Jesus Christ, from whose pierced Heart flows the love of God (cf. Jn 19:34). His death on the Cross is the culmination of that turning of God against himself in which he gives himself in order to raise man. This is love in its most radical form. By contemplating the pierced side of Christ (cf. 19:37), we can understand the starting-point of this Encyclical Letter: “God is love” (1 Jn 4:8). It is there that this truth can be contemplated. It is from there that our definition of love must begin. In this contemplation the Christian discovers the path along which his life and love must move. Only my readiness to encounter my neighbour and to show him love makes me sensitive to God as well. Only if I serve my neighbour can my eyes be opened to what God does for me and how much he loves me. The saints—consider the example of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta—constantly renewed their capacity for love of neighbour from their encounter with the Eucharistic Lord, and conversely this encounter acquired its real- ism and depth in their service to others.” Deus Caritas Est

Perhaps you would be interested in coming to visit our motherhouse or make one of our retreats. If there is anything that we can do to help you in your discernment, please let us know. In the meantime, know that we continue to pray for you and hope that you experience the strength and power of God’s love in your life through the Sacraments, Prayer and Spiritual reading. The following questions I thought that you could ponder and take to your journal. Even if some of the questions apply to your life that may be a clear message that you can consider religious life as an option for your life!

How do you know if God is calling you to serve as a religious for God’s people?

Do you recognize any of these characteristics in yourself?

  • Your relationship with God gives you strength and direction.
  • You love your Catholic Faith and are faithful to the Eucharist.
  • You enjoy working with people.
  • You are often found going out of your way for others in some kind of service.
  • You are physically, emotionally and spiritually healthy.
  • Other people have suggested to you that you may be called to the religious life.
  • You don't feel worthy of the call; you are somewhat afraid but at the same time excited about the possibility.
  • You are reliable and responsible. People can count on you to come through for them.
  • Discernment takes a lot of time, soul searching and prayer.  Looking into your heart and asking yourself these questions is a big step toward becoming a better Christian!
  • Have I experienced God's love in my life?
  • Do I actively practice my Catholic faith and participate in my parish?
  • Does the Gospel message excite and challenge me?
  • Am I searching for a way to share my gifts with others?
  • Do I desire a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ?
  • Am I willing to offer my life for the message of Jesus Christ in the Gospel and his Church?
  • Do I like working with people and do I get along with men and women from all walks of life?
  • Do I want to make a positive difference in the lives of others

May the Heart of Christ and His Blessed Mother Mary continue to be with you on your journey!

Sr. Christine
Sr. Christine Kiley ASCJ